Havenoak

Counselling for relationships

Relationships

For couples who keep having the same argument, and for anyone who keeps meeting the same pattern in different people.

Sessions from
£70
Usually
8 to 15 sessions
First session
within 7 days
Two round grey armchairs side by side next to a tall plant and a frosted window

Most couples arrive after months of trying to sort things out on their own. By then, every conversation seems to land in the same place, and both people feel unheard.

Couples therapy with Priya treats the relationship as the client. Neither of you is the problem; the cycle you fall into is. In sessions she will slow arguments down, help each of you say what is underneath the anger, and practise doing it differently while she is there to catch it.

Sessions are 75 minutes and cost £95, because couples need longer to settle in. Some couples come for eight sessions and leave with new habits; some come to separate well, especially when children are involved.

Individual relationship therapy is 50 minutes at the standard fee, with any of our therapists.

Who you could see for relationships

All of them offer a free 15-minute call first, so you can hear how they work before you decide.

Questions about relationships

Can I come on my own about my relationship?

Yes. Many people do, either because a partner will not come or because they want to understand their own part first.

Do you work with same-sex and non-monogamous couples?

Yes, and with couples of every age, background and arrangement. What matters is the relationship you are in, not what it looks like from outside.

Other things we help with

Talk it through first

A free 15-minute call with a therapist who works with relationships. No commitment, and nothing to prepare.